Hope in Facebook

I have had a number of conversations about Facebook over the last couple of weeks. Facebook is a social networking web site – it is similar to MySpace or Xanga – but I think it is better.

I have used many other social networking type web sites in the past – most often as a tools to keep in touch with the youth that I work with at church. I started off with Live Journal – that is what all the kids were on – moved to Xanga – to MySpace – to Facebook…

I think I am at Facebook to stay! The web site is less about doing it your way and more about doing it the right way – don’t get me wrong – you have some control over how you would like to do stuff but it really doesn’t hinder how things should work in order to have a good user experience. In contrast – MySpace allows people to totally customize how their site looks – the majority of them (I visit) have broken every good design rule which makes their sites almost unusable – definitely not pleasant to use.

So here are my top 5 reasons to use Facebook instead of MySpace

1. The information comes to me.
In MySpace I have to poke around to all my “Friendsâ€? sites to see what they are up to – if I don’t I just don’t know. Facebook brings it all to me – it is telling me who is doing what – which groups people are joining – who has added new pictures… and so on.

2. Privacy
Facebook by default is more private – no one can see your account until you have labeled them as a friend – and even then you can choose for that person to see only your limited profile. In MySPace people can see a whole lot about you as the default setting.

3. Poking
Yup that is right – you can poke people in Facebook – still not sure why but I have to admit – it’s fun :)

4. Notes/Blog
In MySpace you can keep a blog – that is great but I already have a blog and don’t want to do it all over again somewhere else. Facebook allows you to pull an RSS feed of your blog right into your Notes in Facebook. What this basically means is that it automatically picks up what I write in my blog and presents it on my Facebook notes!

5. Groups
There is groups both in MySpace and in Facebook – I just like the way Facebook manages groups – they are easy to setup and manage – they are easy to invite people into and as mentioned earlier – the information about who is joining what groups comes to you – a great way to find out what groups your friends are in and what ones might interest you!

There are more things I love about Facebook – but these are my top 5 for now. If you don’t have an account – swing by the web site today and sign up – it’s free!

A quick note about the title – Hope in Facebook – this is a great success story for groups in Facebook. My friend’s sister – Hope – was in a brutal car accident about a week and a half ago – Jeff (my friend) setup a Facebook group to give updates called “Pray for Hope Wargaâ€?. Within just days the word had spread friend to friend and now there is almost 600 people in this group! If you want more information about Hope and her progress please feel free to join the group.

4 Comments »

  1. BoysWannaFight Said,

    February 11, 2007 @ 5:31 pm

    Meh — I still prefer MySpace, although you make excellent points. The fact that you can customize your MySpace page is what sells me on it. Like you said, there are some HORRENDOUS MySpace layouts out there. (This is the WORST: http://www.myspace.com/soybuddha – be careful, your eyes may bleed.) But I’ve found success with a few pre-fab layout generators. The Dodge Nitro promo MySpace page has a good one with a pretty wide combination of colors and styles (www.myspace.com/nitro). The branding is not very obvious, which I like.

  2. Andy Said,

    February 12, 2007 @ 9:16 am

    Dang that is one scary MySpace account ! Ugggggly

  3. kim Said,

    April 17, 2007 @ 7:54 am

    Hi there,
    I wondered if there was a group for alumni. I tried to join the tyndale group but they were requiring a valid tyndale email and since i am alumni I don’t have one…
    can you let me know if there is a way for me to get connected.. thanks

  4. Marina Said,

    April 18, 2007 @ 10:20 am

    There are several tyndale networks that you can join – and you do not need a tyndale email. Look up Tyndale ON.
    To add my 2 cents… I do not like Facebook at all. I have read nasty public statements about other people that caused a lot of hurt and broken relationships. I have not been a part of it, but I have seen how young people can use this as a venue to have public fights online. It is bizarre to me. Also, really uncomplimentary pictures of people have been posted and left on for all to laugh – another bizarre behaviour. If that is not enough, it makes one’s entire life public! I can go have dinner with a friend, and suddenly, everything we talked about it on their facebook site!
    I have been very surprised by the indiscretion of facebook users – some of my friends included. It got so frustrating for me, that I disabled my account and avoid it altogether. Perhaps I am ‘old fashioned’ to think that some pics and some statements should not be publically broadcast, but so be it.

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